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Tatjana
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Tatjana said:

“Nutrition and nurturing during the first three years are both crucial for lifelong health and well-being. In infancy, no gift is more precious than breastfeeding; yet barely one in three infants is exclusively breastfed during the first four months of life. Faulty feeding practices begin with giving any other nourishment but breast milk before complementary feeding is nutritionally required – or with substituting entirely for breast milk, which places babies at risk of illness, even death. When complementary feeding begins, uninformed decisions can also interfere with good nutrition in terms of which foods are given, how much and how often and whether breastfeeding continues, as it should. Nutritionally inadequate or contaminated food, and starting complementary feeding too early or too late are major causes of malnutrition in infants and young children.” Quoted from http://www.who.int/nutrition/topics/infantfeeding/en/index.html

I am interested in what you did and what experiences you had or have had with your/your partners :-) breastfeeding. I believe that breastfeeding should be done exclusively for at least 1 year after birth. Well, if the child himself wants to eat something else in addition, that´s ok. I breastfed my child for years and I am sure that this was a longlasting advantage for him, physical, psychological. I just turned the usuall practice arround me (because of information from the internet about research in breastfeeding): Instead of finishing my breastfeeding (in German: Abstillen), I let my son decide. And he did! Don´t be afraid of long-term-nursing (Langzeitstillen): Your child will drop it itself – long before s/he goes to university ;-)).

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nelliemuller
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nelliemuller agreed:

Hi Tatjana,

What a fascinating topic. It used to be one of my favorites. Breastfeeding makes the first half year so easy. You don’t have to prepare any food. It’s all there. However, I wonder about your statement to breastfeed as long as the child wants. Thank you for sharing the article on breastfeeding.

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Tatjana
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Tatjana agreed:

Hi Nellie, thank you for your state/agreement and for linking the quoted article! When my child was 9 months old my environment (friends, child-doctor, family) put pressure on me to add food, so I prepared complicated healthy food … Although my son didn´t want it, I tried to convice him to eat that :) Now I would just wait till the child shows interest in eating food itself! This way I also found in the breastfeeding-literature. Did your child do so, when it was 6 months old? I´m curious to hear. Well, the child signalizes very natural and clear, when s/he wants to drink, wants your breast. So why should I `tell´ him one day that this is from now on false? This was my question. My answer was, of course I would never reject him, so let´s wait and see (and drink a cup of tea :))

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mewren
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mewren agreed:

Hi all, I am still breastfeeding at 14 months. He eats solid food too, but I still breast feed him whenever he asks for it. We are very careful not to pressure him too much to eat solid foods. He eats what he wants and as long as we offer a variety he seems to get a good balance. We started at around 7 months with some cereal and sweet potato.

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Tatjana
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Tatjana agreed:

Hi Jen, you express excactely the way I would recommend every mother/family. Thank you. How are the reactions of your environment? How is long-term-breastfeeding looked in your country? In Germany breastfeeding is very much promoted for the first three months. Longer times, even years is still unusual and looked at peculiar. Was it your inner voice plus information besides the usual advice, that led you to your practice? Like this it was with me.

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Tatjana
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Tatjana agreed:

There is a new book (German title: “Die Denker des Dschungels. Der Orangutan Report”) of Schuster, Smits, Ullal (2008), translated “Philosophers of the dschungle. The Orangutan Report”, with interesting information from our closest relatives about our topic: The little Orangutan is always in contact with his mother since it is about 7 years old, about 5 years it is breastfed, but starts trying fruit and leaves during its first year. The mortality of orangutan-children is very low. I used to find pictures like this of an orangutan female breastfeeding her (kindergarden-)child encouraging to find a way for my inner voice (“Let your child drink, whenever it wants (and you´re available)”) through the dschungle of modern expectations!

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nelliemuller
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nelliemuller
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nelliemuller agreed:

You may wish to collaborate with others on the value of breastfeeding. Here is a video on the subject: http://wikieducator.org/Breast_feeding_and_weaning

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Tatjana
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Tatjana agreed:

Thank you Nellie!

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Tatjana
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Tatjana agreed:

Here is the german website for long-term-breastfeeding (under construction): http://www.langzeitstillen.de/

By the way, Nellie, how do you manage to make the hyperlinks here, mine don´t work.

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